#1 LABEL MAKING,…name calling,…

Posted: November 22, 2012 in Uncategorized

by johnedoe

you know,…Iv’e been giving what follows a whole lot of thought, for a very long time,….Some things just finally have to be shared,…or, certain things,…just have to be said,…No matter what anyone else may think about what we have to say…..
but, What if???? what we have to say,…sounds “Crazy” to some people???? What if it sounds “Crazy” to most people????
You see, when we speak up,…There is a very, very, good chance that others won’t won’t (WILL NOT!!!!) agree with what it is that we have to say…..actually,…the fact is this,…People, Many Many people will not agree with what we have to say. Period.
But that’s just life, right??? So,…knowing this, do we then say nothing at all??? OOOOooooooo,….good question!!!! I guess we could just shut our mouths (in a country where we have free speach?????!!!) and say absolutely nothing, risking the chance that on our death bed,..the one place where we would hope to have have no regrets,…that we find out that we regret what,…we didn’t say while we had the chance??? That just doesn’t work for me……
Truthfully,…I do not like that idea,…at all!!!,……
So,…Every now and then a Certain Moment takes place where we “hear” something that someone has said,…or we “read” something that someone has written,..and it inspires us to open or mouths and speak up, and forth, whatever is inside of us!!!…..And in a very Straight Forward way, at that!!!,…
Well,…for me,……this is the day, that day,………….or one of those days!!!!!………………do I expect people to like what I have to say??? Nope,..not at all……
is what I have to say gonna change the world??? Nope, not at all……
Then,…that said,….Why am I even going to say anything???
Well,….Honest answer is this,……as part of the Autism Spectrum,….I have heard so many thoughts about this thing called the spectrum…mostly said by normal people????,….They are giving their “Professional Opinion” about Autism??????
Professional implies that they are getting paid to Label and Name Call areas of other individuals lives who are “in the spectrum”,…. and they are getting paid to give advice (from their normal minds) concerning important issues concerning the spectrum!!!!,….
Oh gee, that makes sense, right???,…Those who, for the most part, have no clue,….Now giving clues???????? Scary thought, isn’t it?????
This, to me,….is the same as if some who raised Racing Turtles was asked their “professional opinion”….about my home computer, and about what’s wrong with and how I should fix it?!!!!!??
Does that “Not” make much sense to you either????!!!!!….You are correct,…In Fact,….It sounds like a pretty stupid idea all the way around,…doesn’t it???????…Yet,….This is happening all day, and every day in the Autistic Community!!!…..
Hey,…how much closer do you think that we are to understanding anything about Autism now!?!?!?!?!!?!……….no lol………….
But, what if the racing turtle “profession” wasn’t very profitable???
So,…someone tells the “slow thinking” turtle farmer that he/she “should give people advice” on “home computers” instead????,…
“Why????”,…because he would make a lot of money doing that!!??
Plus,…it’s a new field,….He could just fake it and make things up as he goes!!!!!!!,…..
Plus,….no one said that he had to “fix” the home computer!!!!!,….remember???? how could turtle-man go wrong???
And it wouldn’t be being deceitful either, as turtle-man had a home computer of his own, right??? It was dusty as hell and tucked away in the garage,..but still??????
And remember, turtle farming didn’t pay enough to cover his/her bills!!!!,………So,…..Why not, right???????
And,….he could label certain areas that he thought were messed up on the computer too!!!!!! even naming certain problems, and parts, and pieces after his or her self too!!!!!!!,….what fun!!!!!!,….and remember,…..getting paid the whole while!!!!!!………..
To which turtle-man replies,…..hellllll yesssssss!!!!! let’s do it!!!!!!!!
Actually his “response” was much,…..much,…………much,……………much,…………………………………..much,…………………………………………………………………………………slo…………………slow,…………………………………………slowwwwwww,……………………………………………….slowwwwwwwwerrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr,……………because we have to remember,…………………………………………they were turtle farmers for a reason,…………………………………If you think I’m overstressing the slow part??????,…..Then I can tell that you have never tried to get any type of assistance (much less, help or understanding, concerning your autuistic child!!!!!!,…………………………………………………………………have ya????
So,……this brings me to where this all started and my thoughts and feelings concerning LABELING AND NAME CALLING for the greater good of all those affected by and in the autism spectrum……
what follows on the next post began as a comment on someone else’s page,………please read,…
“#2 LABEL MAKING…name calling”……….
please share your comments,…..no matter what they may be,…….please…………..
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